1 Take care of her

The responsibility to take care a patient who in the vegetable state that is a very hard work.

In the past nineteen years, my mother was a patient in vegetable state.

I understand how hard it would be.

In May 1995, after the Brain surgery operation, my mother has became to a patient in vegetable state.

She was fallen into deeply coma in three months.

In my world everything was changed.

Nobody could be reliable as he used to be.

In the hardest period, she has lost Self-breathing function, and need to connect with "breathing machine" to keep her living in ICU.

100 days later. A miracle had happened. She woke up from deeply coma, and stay away from the breathing machine.

However, my mother was became to body paralyzed,

She has no communication with anybody. That mean everything she needs is my responsibility.

That was a great challenge with me.

In honestly, I was afraid of this situation and felt tired of nervous.

My nervous was coming from physical and emotion.

In physically term, that can be used physically exercise to improve.

But in emotionally term, that was complicated.

I had chosen to ignore the nervous, and started to learn how to take care a patient in vegetable state.

My teachers were the doctor and the nurse of Neurosurgery ward. They all knew my mother was my beloved in the world.

In Neurosurgery ward, I am a sensible son of patient. I always to be alert for myself in which thing could not be done, and never let people feels annoying by me.

Therefore, doctors and nurses start to teach me everything I should know in mutual trust case.